You can have absolutely everything you ever desired … but if you are not happy … it’s all useless … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
We
go throw life … with lots of thoughts, dreams and millions of desires.
And
the funny thing is that after a while … we realize that many of those things
became true.
And
still … we are not satisfied.
Something
… like an invisible barrier … blocks our path to happiness.
Even
the concept itself of such a thing … called happiness … is so abstract that …
we don’t really believe we can ever achieve it.
In
my book “PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING - had everything, but i actually had nothing …
had nothing, but i actually had everything” … which is actually a book with
love essays … i remember that i tried to explain the concept of love affairs
and their meaning.
My
friend Brian … which is actually kind of a reflection of myself … always
inspired me in my writings.
I
say reflection of myself …. cause he is always doing stupid things … same as i
do …. which makes our lives look like … a
non
sense.
Today
… i see Brian … as the profile that is defining the best the concept of …
philosophy of nothing.
He’s
having all he ever wanted.
A
lovely house, a beautiful wife, amazing kids, a successful business … and it’s
so weird to see him suffering of a profound … sadness.
Brian
looks …. having the perfect life …. but …
You
see … my friend is not so idiot as he looks like.
I
see him often in the company of some beautiful ladies … and i use to ask him …
“Why you do this Brian?! It’s a nonsense?! Your wife could find out …. and you
will lose all you have now?!
You’ve
worked a lot … for all this …”
“All
this what, Gabriel?!
I
have nothing … just nothing.
There
is not even one thing that could make me happy.
Not
even …. one.
So
i’ll lose what?!”
Maybe
Brian was right.
From
outside it all looked like Brian was doing only stupid things … going out with
all those ladies … but the real truth was that he gave himself the freedom to
live also into a parallel world … where maybe he has a better chance to be
happy.
Was
it ok what he was doing?!
Was
it moral?!
Should
we judge him for all these stupid things that he was doing?!
Why
someone as Brian … that looks that has everything … feels that has nothing?!
What
is the best thing he could do?!
And
even if i chat a lot with him … trying to understand him … i came to a point when
i simple don’t judge him anymore for his stupid behavior.
I
consider all as part of this journey called … life.
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